FOOLISHNESS OF TODAY'S YOUNG STARS!!!

(A deep observation)
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[Be aware my dear Muslim brothers and sisters]
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Today here and there, you may easily find many unmarried couples around you who behave as if that if you do not have a partner for zina(illicit relationship), then you are not a part of this modern world!
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But they themselves do not know how much foolishness they are also showing besides doing such haram deeds! Let's have a look:
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♥ Foolishness 1:
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Before making a relationship, first a boy and a girl meets. Most of the boys (who have the mentality of making a girl friend) think that they have fallen in love with that girl at the first glance.
This is their first foolishness! Because it is nothing but their hormonal response behind which they decide to run after accompanying the waswasa(persuasion) of Shaitan!
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أَرَءَيْتَ مَنِ ٱتَّخَذَ إِلَٰهَهُۥ هَوَىٰهُ أَفَأَنتَ تَكُونُ عَلَيْهِ وَكِيلًا
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"Have you seen the one who takes as his god his own desire? Then would you be responsible for him?"
(The Noble Quran, 25:43)
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♥ Foolishness 2:
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Second foolishness occurs when the boy wants to make friendship with that girl. He tries his level best to satisfy the girl either by his talking, attitude, looking and so on. This is another foolishness because the girl is at once not much attracted by such behaviour when she meets a new unknown boy. Rather, the girl then tries to find that either the boy is safe for her or not; is he suitable for her or not and so on! This is completely non-sense that both the boys and girls are going closer to zina, yet one becomes attracted to his partner and other starts to test her new boy-friend; but at the end of such meeting, they lose nothing but their valuable time and energy!
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وَٱلَّذِينَ كَفَرُوٓا۟ أَعْمَٰلُهُمْ كَسَرَابٍۭ بِقِيعَةٍ يَحْسَبُهُ ٱلظَّمْـَٔانُ مَآءً حَتَّىٰٓ إِذَا جَآءَهُۥ لَمْ يَجِدْهُ شَيْـًٔا وَوَجَدَ ٱللَّهَ عِندَهُۥ فَوَفَّىٰهُ حِسَابَهُۥۗ وَٱللَّهُ سَرِيعُ ٱلْحِسَابِ
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"But those who disbelieved -  their deeds are like a mirage in a lowland which a thirsty one thinks is water until, when he comes to it, he finds it is nothing but finds Allah before Him, and He will pay him in full his due; and Allah is swift in account."
(The Noble Quran, 24:39)
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♥ Foolishness 3:
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The third foolishness happens when the girl starts to think the boy as her good friend. It is at that moment when the girl judges the boy by her own point of view and she becomes satisfied with his attitude and all things. Then she starts to be free with that boy!
This is completely ridiculous because the boy is becoming close to her not because of friendship, but for his sexual desire to her; but the girl misunderstands thinking that it is just a friendship, nothing else!
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"...The life of this world is only the enjoyment of deception (a deceiving thing)."
(The Noble Quran, 3:185)
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♥ Foolishness 4:
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When the girl puts her trust on her boy-friend, she becomes closer and closer to him in order to make stronger friendship. So, she starts to smile, talk and walk freely with that boy, starts touching him, roaming with him and so on. But the foolish boy thinks that her girl-friend has become sexually attracted to him and he also gives the response trying to be closer and closer to her. Often many boys can not resist their sexual desire and start behaving sexually with their girl-friend. But such sexual response often becomes unfamiliar to a girl as she is only trying to find friendly attitude in her boy-friend's behaviour. For this reason, unexpected sexual response makes a negative thought in her mind and that's why we can see, often there causes break-up within a few days of relationship between a boy-friend and a girl-friend nowdays! Hahaha! And they are calling it as pure, holy and true "Love"!
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ٱعْلَمُوٓا۟ أَنَّمَا ٱلْحَيَوٰةُ ٱلدُّنْيَا لَعِبٌ وَلَهْوٌ وَزِينَةٌ وَتَفَاخُرٌۢ بَيْنَكُمْ وَتَكَاثُرٌ فِى ٱلْأَمْوَٰلِ وَٱلْأَوْلَٰدِۖ كَمَثَلِ غَيْثٍ أَعْجَبَ ٱلْكُفَّارَ نَبَاتُهُۥ ثُمَّ يَهِيجُ فَتَرَىٰهُ مُصْفَرًّا ثُمَّ يَكُونُ حُطَٰمًاۖ وَفِى ٱلْءَاخِرَةِ عَذَابٌ شَدِيدٌ وَمَغْفِرَةٌ مِّنَ ٱللَّهِ وَرِضْوَٰنٌۚ وَمَا ٱلْحَيَوٰةُ ٱلدُّنْيَآ إِلَّا مَتَٰعُ ٱلْغُرُورِ
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"Know that the life of this world is only play and amusement, pomp and mutual boasting among you, and rivalry in respect of wealth and children, as the likeness of vegetation after rain, thereof the growth is pleasing to the tiller; afterwards it dries up and you see it turning yellow; then it becomes straw. But in the Hereafter (there is) a severe torment (for the disbelievers, evil-doers), and (there is) Forgiveness from Allah and (His) Good Pleasure (for the believers, good-doers), whereas the life of this world is only a deceiving enjoyment."
(The Noble Quran, 57:20)
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♥ Foolishness 5:
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When that non-maharam boy and girl have become closer and closer to each other, their minds become more complex and there creates an uncomfortable suffering in both of them. Getting more fuel, as the fire sparkles more, the boy-friend and girl-friend also start burning more and more like fire when they depart away from each other! This is another great foolishness because they did not take any pre-cautionary step before getting such mental disease in their heart and now at this stage of their so called love, yet they can not realize that this is their psychological sickness and they should try to come out of this evil desire!
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But how foolish such guys are that instead of coming out, they involve themselves more in such Rumeo-Juliet filthy act and such desire turns into direct sexual intercourse when they can not at all control themselves. Yet after sexual intercourse, they can not find any peace; rather their intensity of desire becomes more than before and they start to become like rudderless thinking, 'in which way I will go!'
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At this extreme stage, sometimes a boy becomes more mad; or sometimes a girl becomes more mad; or sometimes both of them becomes equally mad with desire!
But most of the time, this happens with a boy as a boy easily becomes weaker to a girl!
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Now is this worthy to be called as "LOVE"???
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إِنَّا جَعَلْنَا مَا عَلَى ٱلْأَرْضِ زِينَةً لَّهَا لِنَبْلُوَهُمْ أَيُّهُمْ أَحْسَنُ عَمَلًا
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"Indeed, We have made that which is on the earth adornment for it that We may test them [as to] which of them is best in deed."
(The Noble Quran, 18:7)
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وَٱصْبِرْ نَفْسَكَ مَعَ ٱلَّذِينَ يَدْعُونَ رَبَّهُم بِٱلْغَدَوٰةِ وَٱلْعَشِىِّ يُرِيدُونَ وَجْهَهُۥۖ وَلَا تَعْدُ عَيْنَاكَ عَنْهُمْ تُرِيدُ زِينَةَ ٱلْحَيَوٰةِ ٱلدُّنْيَاۖ وَلَا تُطِعْ مَنْ أَغْفَلْنَا قَلْبَهُۥ عَن ذِكْرِنَا وَٱتَّبَعَ هَوَىٰهُ وَكَانَ أَمْرُهُۥ فُرُطًا
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"And keep yourself patient [by being] with those who call upon their Lord in the morning and the evening, seeking His countenance. And let not your eyes pass beyond them, desiring adornments of the worldly life, and do not obey one whose heart We have made heedless of Our remembrance and who follows his desire and whose affair is ever [in] neglect."
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(The Noble Quran, 18:28)
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- By Ahmed Ali